Be a Copycat and gain more confidence.
In order to get the desired confidence levels that you are after
it pays to be a copycat!
Another word for this is modeling.
By observing and modeling successful behavior, i.e in this case
people with high levels of confidence, you can pick up little golden
nuggets of tips, techniques and the strategies that they use.
By observing how they walk, talk and act you too can take what they
do, put it into your own life and get the same results.
Don’t believe me?
Try this exercise out over the next couple of days and see how you feel!
Over the next 3 days I want you to observe other people.
I want you to observe all types of people - confident people, shy people,
outgoing people, people talking, people being quiet, how people interact
with each other.
Observe people who know one another, people who are strangers.
Look closely at what they say and do.
How are they moving their body?
What do they do with their head?
How do they speak?
How do others react to them?
Would you like to talk to this person?
Are they smiling and laughing?
Would you like to be this person?
Below, write down 5 behaviors and things that you observe over the next 3 days
that make you say :
“I want to be like that!”
Then for the next 2 days, I want you to take just 1 of the 5 behaviors that
you have written out above and I want you to act that way for the duration
of those 2 days.
That’s it, no longer, no less.
After the 2 days you will soon discover the magic of modeling behaviors.
Then you’ll move onto the next behavior and the next and then you
will begin to see a new you.
Try it out and let me know what you think.
Have a confident and positive day.